How taking responsability within your patterns creates change.

Sep 13, 2022
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How Does Taking Responsibility for a Pattern Actually Create Change?

Taking full responsibility for a pattern, rather than staying focused on what was done to you, is what creates change. When you own that you are co-creating your reality and lean into the core fear underneath the pattern, you stop repeating old family patterning and become a conscious creator instead.

Have you ever discovered a pattern that you have carried that blew your mind? 🤯 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Have you caught your mind saying “nothing ever works out for me”?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Or…Do you wonder and wait for the universe to prove its love to you because you have been wronged by your life circumstances?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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😱 I get it, I used to think like this. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👉🏻 It all was tied to a deeper pattern⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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🤯 This is the mind blowing part. It was tied to a deep pattern that I was playing out in my own marriage around sex and money. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Truth is… I witnessed my parents fight constantly about these topics. I was imprinted deeply and conditioned by this. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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So as an adult I found myself subtly playing out the unresolved material (the unhealed psychic trauma of witnessing my parents issues).⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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🤯 Wow! 😳 Eye opening⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Holy Shazam! Bingo, the keys and answers to a mystery I felt powerless to was presented to me by my own soul. 🔥 I became lit up to deeply own all parts to this pattern. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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✅ I took 100% Responsability that I co create with Spirit my reality⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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✅ I leaned into feeling all the parts of this core fear I carried. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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✅ I gave myself full permission to shed showing up like my parents patterning⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👑 This changed my relationship, the way I showed up in relationship with these topics. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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👑 Personal freedom to feel empowered around these topics. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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❌ no more playing out the patterns of my parents past, I’m free to be a conscious creator with Spirit.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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❓Are you seeking this level of growth and understanding around long standing patterns that have kept you feeling powerless?⠀⠀
 
I encourage you to book your free session to explore your curriculum and how to get free of the patterns that have held you back.
 

What Else Do People Ask About Taking Responsibility for Your Patterns?

What thoughts can signal a limiting pattern?

Thoughts like nothing ever works out for me, or waiting for the universe to prove its love to you, are often signs of a pattern worth exploring.

What does it mean to be a conscious creator?

It means owning your part in co-creating your reality and feeling the core fear underneath a pattern, so it no longer runs your life unconsciously.

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